We’ve all dealt with them before. Those toxic colleagues who seemingly complain about every detail in their lives; and at the same time, you find yourself in the heart of it all, or do you?
We make a choice everyday to think the thoughts we think, to speak the way we do, and to be in the lives of other people – whether it’s good or bad.
My first job in Thailand wasn’t the prettiest. In fact, it was the second worst job I’ve ever had in my life. My health was in shambles, lost 5 kilograms, wasn’t happy, was battling the trials of tribulations that Thailand was throwing at me. On top of that, I had an extremely evil boss that threatened by visa and work permit everyday. One foreign teacher was depressed and the other one was a two-faced, under-the-cover racist.
What did I do?
I left. I left without looking back. Although I tried keeping in touch with the Irishman, I realized that it was a one-way street and that he lied about EVERYTHING (and I mean things like getting five females numbers in one day), so he was dropped like a bad habit.
The job following that was even more difficult because the groupthink that was happening. Gen B workers absolutely hated me because they thought I was putting more effort into my private classes than I was teaching some of the worst students in the south of Thailand. Even though that’s true (lol), they were pro-culture Thais…meaning they didn’t accept any new ideas. By the end of my tenure, I ate in my classroom, never scanned my card when I left at the end of the day, and never talked to anyone in general. Talk about leaving the most sour taste behind.
The last job I had in the public school system was horrendous. One day I woke up and asked myself, “Am I happy? Absolutely not. What are you going to do about it? Leave. When? Thursday.” Four days later – I left. I literally got my last check in the evening and never went back to the school because I was always stressed and pissed off because the students would scream f*** you at me.
If you’re not happy with your working environments, tackle the problem head on. Don’t be in denial. I love doing the wheel of life because it keeps me grounded and level-headed on the categories of my life.